A guy proposed to a lady and the lady accepted but she said no sex unless the guy becomes a Christian. The guy also said If the lady allows him sex, he will give himself to Christ.  The lady granted his wish and from that time , the guy became a Christian, even a pastor.
Question I : did the lady win the guy 's soul for christ?
Question 2: did the lady sin?
Question 3:should we sin to win souls for christ?
Question 4:what do u think sir?
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I have seen the above questions in circulation but I didn't pay much attention to it, until someone forwarded it personally to hear my view. It is wise to share this response with other people at my reach, as this inspiration can be of help to someone.
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The lady has no power to convert a soul, it is obviously the work of the Holy Spirit to convict men of sin unto repentance. First of all, if the sister is actually spiritual, the Holy Spirit would have convict her heart before she acted the way she did and make her to understand that what she wanted to do is not right and acceptable. The guy that requested for sex may later have personal encounter with God and be genuinely converted but certainly not because  the lady gave in to allow his will prevail. God doesn't work that way, we can't help God to do his work. A person that is spiritual should have a better understanding and guide against errors.

We can't use crooked ways to make a man righteous. God is upright and will not lower his standard for whatever reason. Compromise at any level is not acceptable in the Christian faith, because we are the light of the world. There is no way our light will shine effectively, if we still keep the secret works of darkness.

If the lady acted in ignorance, she needs to repent. God's standard for marriage is that the bed should be kept undefiled.

" _Hebrews  13:4  Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge._ "

Moreover, it is not advisable for a lady or a guy to marry an unbeliever in that state of spiritual deadness, thinking that he or she will convert the partner in marriage. It's a great error that you may not able to manage, because the partner may end up converting you to his/herself and put your faith at the risk of elimination. You're not the Holy Spirit and you can't do His job for Him. You're just to be a witness of Christ to people, you are not the converter of souls. Only God has power over the souls of men to change it. It will be presumptuous and costly to act on the behalf of the Holy Spirit.

If, God really showed you that an unbeliever will be your future partner, patiently wait until he get converted. If, two unbelievers married before either of them got born again, such case is different. (1Cor. 7:10-16). Don't go into any marital relationship, until you have a clear evidence that the partner is born again and growing up in Christ.

 _1 Corinthians 6:9 Know ye not that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Be not deceived: neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor abusers of themselves with mankind,  6:10 Nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners, shall inherit the kingdom of God.  6:11 And such were some of you: but ye are washed, but ye are sanctified, but ye are justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and by the Spirit of our God._

 _6:16 What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh.  6:17 But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit.  6:18 Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body._

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